Friday, August 7, 2009
Parmenter Missions - The Treasure Has Arrived
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Adam, Marge, Michael and Maryellen
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Not Afraid
Another great tip today was to listen with comprehension rather than trying to mimic words when you begin. We tried this out today on a tribal language from Vietnam and we get to try it tomorrow in Russian with a Russian language helper. So, I am learning techniques that I can do now-observing everyone else's mouths!!!!!, etc...... to understand how sounds are made.
I read the first day I was here in the last chapter of John. Here, Peter questions the risen Lord when he challenges Peter to feed my sheep. Peter wants to know " what is going to happen with that "other disciple" (meaning John). My paraphrasing, but the Lord asks Peter to do what he is asked to do and not worry about the other disciple. In the same way, the Lord is challenging me not to compare myself to others in this language learning process, but to work hard and learn and try try try.... Do you know how difficult that is surrounded by all these missionaries - I think I am the oldest in the room.....?
Colorado is beautiful and God has given me a wonderful setting, away from the distractions of home to step out in faith and try this language learning on way before I get on a plane to the Czech. I am grateful for this opportunity.
Marge Parmenter
Apa Apa Apa
As we grow older our brain locks into just those sounds in our native language. It's not just that we have difficulty saying them, our brains may not recognize them well enough to even attempt to reproduce them. Try to reproduce a word from a language in which tone of voice is part of the meaning of the word. The teacher demonstrated pairs of words that all sounded the same, but were each different, if you listened to subtle shifts in tone or elongation of vowel or consonant. On the flip side, individuals from Japan who have learned English well are still not able to pronounce certain common sounds. Those sounds don't exist in their language and their brains may not even recognize when the "hear" them spoken.
So, each day, twice a day, we drill phonetic sounds. One example is to drill making unaspirated "P", "B", and some other letters. When English speakers use those letters at the beginning of a word they make a puff of air after it. You probably don't even notice that you do. Many languages use those sounds in the unaspirated form. No puff. So we drill through making those unaspirated sounds. This is just the beginning as the staff take us through numerous non-English language sounds. The end goal is to be able recognize language sounds that are not part of English and to make them correctly when we are learning another language. We also get to laugh at ourselves a lot.
Later yesterday, the demonstrated some langauge learning techniques that we can do while we are attending language school. They make a point that acquiring the language is our task. Language school is there to help, but even outside of it we should be using creative ways to learn the language. Right now, I can't even imagine that I will become fluent in another language. It seems impossible. Marge and I are thankful that God does the impossible, that so many wise individuals have been there before us, and can help us find the way.
Tuesday, July 21, 2009
Kalamazoo to Palmer
As happened onto the prairie/foot hills (if that's what they are called), I was stunned by the wide open spaces. Then as we drove through Denver and headed South toward Palmer Lake we just sort of gawked at the mountains. The small road that leads from the highway to the MTI office is like a roller coaster. Marge was driving. Thankfully. The kids wooped it up and laughed as we topped several hills. I just closed my eyes and turned my head.
Today is the first full day of training and classes. I frankly feel overwelmed. We are surrounded by individuals and couples from different mission agencies bound for countries all over the world. Each of them excited about successfully communicating Christ to the language/cultures in which they will reside. Most of our day today was occupied with phonetics training. We are learning to identify (hear) and reproduce the basic sounds of language. Recognizing the sounds of our langague and other non English sounds. Each day we will be drilled on how to identify and reproduce basic linquistic sounds. This will prepare us for identifying the unique sounds of a language and reproduce them.
We are also learning techniques for learning language.
Believe it or not, it's tiring work, but we still plan on hiking on the trail that is behind the training center. I couldn't have asked for a more beautiful location to receive training. I almost feel a little guilty. I always thought missionaries were supposed to suffer, but sitting in the midst of these mountains is a glorious experience.
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Two years down . . . Two to go?
What has happened in these first two years. Well we started out the first year and a half with me juggling a full time job and pre-field. That meant, while at Pfizer, rushing to find an empty conference room and with my cell phone and note cards seeing how many churches I could contact on a break. In a good week I might contact 40 churches and send out ten information packets. Then, Pfizer gave me a flexible work schedule and each Tuesday, from home, I would contact 60 churches. My position at Pfizer was restructured last December and I was let go. Some weeks since then, but not every week, I've contact 150+ churches. It has really accelerated the process of setting up meetings.
In 2008, we spoke at 12 churches. In 2009, we will probably speak at about 30+ churches. These meetings are where we have a chance to share about the Czech and why we feel called to go there. Some churches, after praying, will sense that God wants them to support us financially or through prayer. Some individuals will also make a decision to support us.
Another thing that has developed over the last two years is our ability to articulate our two fold message. Part of the message is about our mission to the Czech, but the second part is that at every church we are encouraging people to value Christ above all else. So, even when a church doesn't feel called to support us, we have the opportunity to encourage and challenge people in their Christian faith. We do this in morning services, sunday school lessons, and concerts. We also challenge them to realize that God is at work all over the world in ways we don't often realize. At each church we have also had opportunities to be a listening ear and to counsel with people. In that way, pre-field is much more than fund raising. It really is a mission of encouragement to churches all over the Midwest.
The two years of pre-field have been a maturing process. Spiritually, as necessity has driven us more and more to prayer and acts of faith. We have seen God provide our needs such as the time our car broke down on the road, and the church at which we were speaking covered all the expenses through a special offering. We are learning how to trust in God even when He doesn't act on our timing. It is stretching and deepening our faith. We are maturing in knowledge as we study the Bible and teach others. Our patience and ability to stay calm when confronted with obstacles has grown. That's something you need lots of on the field. We've also learned how to be more organized and prepared.
There have been low points and low low points when we lie awake at night and wonder how in the world this will all turn out. Or wondering if we are really missionary material. Through it all our resolve to continue on this road, working hard and praying harder, has not abated. It may take us another two years. In fact God may have more for us to learn or other churches in which he wants us to minister. In that regard then we will remain faithful to this pre-field ministry until such time that God calls us across the ocean tot the next stage in this adventure.
Gearing up for the Rockies
I honestly don't know what we will be doing for two weeks, but I want to have the skills necessary to learn the Czech language well. After the training we are going to drive up to Estes park where we've rented a cabin for several days. This opportunity won't arise again for a long time, so we want to enjoy the beauty of the region while we can.
I'm a little nervous. I've never done a cross country road trip before. Growing up we flew everywhere. My dad was a pilot for United Airlines, so tickets were very cheap or free. This is a new experience for me, but I'm looking forward to it.
Check here, and I'll keep you updated on what happens.
Monday, June 29, 2009
Getting back on the road
That Sunday morning I stayed in bed and miss morning services at my in laws church, but built up enough steam to get up and present at Liberty.
Last week has been a slow recovery from heart burn.
This weekend we presented at Pocahontas Regular Baptist Church, Pocahontas, IA. We also presented our first concert based on the music I'm recording for the treasure. I was pretty nervous. God really provided for us in all regards, even though I've still been feeling queasy.
After a wonderful morning with the folks at Pocahontas, we took Michael and Maryellen to meet up with the youth group from our home church, Bethel, who happened to be doing a week of service projects in Des Moines with several other youth groups.
Marge and I used points from our credit card to stay over night in Des Moines and doing some looking around. In the fall we will be presenting in Iowa or Nebraska churches every weekend, and we are considering a temporary move there to cut down of travel times. It would also give us the opportunity to try to schedule mid-week visits to churches. We checked out an extended stay hotel and the price was roughly double what we pay in mortgage, so that is not an option.
We are also going to start checking around for any churches that might have missions houses or an empty parsonage. Kip Crigger, Bethel's youth pastor, is from Iowa, so we hope that he can help us make some connections with churches in this area.
We also made a stop at ManPower to check on temp jobs. That way i can earn a little extra to cover expenses while we are in Des Moines.
Now Marge and I are relaxing in yet another hotel, and tomorrow will stop in Cedar Rapids on our way home to see how the Czech Village is progressing, and to visit the Czech museums gift store that is located in a local shopping mall.
Still, so many questions about where we will live in the fall. God knows. We just need to continue to exercises our trust.
Adam
Saturday, May 30, 2009
The Treasure - Recording Progress
My key vocalist who would have recording all of my harmony background vocals (also called BGVs) when from being very available to maybe available on one night. My guitar player is waiting for his guitar to come back form the shop. Finally, the software I ordered that is supposed to allow me to make all the sounds of a symphony orchestra is suddenly not available and I had to reorder it from somewhere else.
So, I'm thinking of switching and having the vocalist play guitar instead.
The all I need is to find a person or two that can harmonize by ear without lots of prep time and be willing to do a recording session or two with very little pay. I know some others in places like Texas and South Carolina.
Also, I always say, never introduce new technology into the middle of a recording project, but I'm purchasing the Miroslave Philharmonic software. Five of the songs on the CD are recorded with accompaniment tracks that I've purchased from he store. I've been singing them in churches for nearly a year. The other six songs, I'm using live musicians to lay down the instrument tracks. For consistency and listenability, I want a string section. Since I don't happen to be friends with a chamber orchestra or anything, this is the next best thing.
There is at least one point each week when I think to myself, "Who was I kidding? This will never work". Last week, it was when I was trying to teach myself the bass line to There Is A Savior and How Deep The Father's Love and found out that the way I was plucking the strings was making them play sharp. I had to learn the part and relearn the best way to play the strings for that style of music. It took most of a day, but God provided. There's a few spots where I'm off, but otherwise it sounds good.
Pray for the progress of this recording. It has been a dream many years in the making and I'm hoping that it is integral to our pre-field missions ministry. No clue how God will use it once we are on the field.
Adam
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Parmenters say, "Aetna, I'm glad I met ya!"
Aetna Calvary is just one example of the great people we are meeting in churches all over the Midwest. You can watch a series of short videos that I made from each day of our trip at http://sharethecrown.com/AetnaCalvary.aspx.
MARCH IN NEBRASKA and Beyond
In March, Michael and Adam spent 10 days presenting at churches in Iowa and Nebraska. Since then, the family has visited with First Baptist Temple, Oshkosh, WI and Heritage Baptist, Manistee, MI.
It’s a family affair as each of us is involved in setting up, presenting, music, and teaching. It’s a treat to work as a family and enjoy each other in the process. At each stop we work to be encouragers and servants in anyway we can. It’s fun to be able to pitch in where ever needed. Once Adam helped a church improve their sound system, in another the family filled in for the church praise team (that was a stretch).
Always, there is the joy and excitement of talking about the spiritual needs of the Czech. Presenting about the Czech makes us even more eager to be there.
We are working toward having our support raised by the middle of next year, but only God knows the exact schedule. Even so, the work of pre-field has proven to be a fruitful ministry of encouragement in churches throughout the Midwest.
We would love to visit with your church or in your home and share our message. Contact us at 269-762-2202 or parmenters@abwe.cc
Meanwhile Back on Bank Street:
Michael has been "plowed under" by a head cold. The coughing has made it tough for him to play trumpet, but he has bravely stepped up to play his horn. He's coming to the end of his school year, and is excited about starting driver's training. Pray for his health.
WHERE WILL BE SERVING NEXT
Volinia Baptist Church, Decatur, MI 269-782-5680
June 15-18
Basketball Camp, Bethel Baptist Church, Kalamazoo, MI 269-381-2080
Sunday 21-June-09
For the complete 2009/2010 calendar go to http://sharethecrown.com/calendar.aspx
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Thursday, April 30, 2009
I'm Different Now
At that point something odd happened: I laughed. Not a synical laugh or a laugh of derision, but a good natured laugh. I closed the garage door and waited, instead of banging until I woke our host. I studied my notes while I waited and listened to the wind and rain outside the garage walls. I also took note that not that long ago I would have been outraged that I had been so stupid as to get locked out.
God has changed me over the last eight years in ways that are only now becoming apparent, and the transformation process has accelerated since we started our missions journey. Another example is that on Wednesday I lost our family video camera. Ouch. That’s an expensive thing to misplace. I lost it on the way home from Iowa. On our way to Wisconsin yesterday there was one place we could check, but it wasn’t there. Years ago, I would have been in a deep slump over losing something like that.
Truly, if I can’t find it, there’s nothing I can do about it, I need to try and be more careful, and move on with life. This week I realized I had done that. I even felt a little bad for not feeling worse about it.
I guesse my point here is that for me a consequence of pursuing missions has been a greater maturity, and a deepening of my spiritual understanding. Namely, an understand that in light of eternity things have little value. Also, in light of eternity trials and difficult times are quite small.
What a blessing for me. I used to get so bent out of shape when things didn’t go how I thought they should. I can’t guarantee that I’ll never lose my temper again or get upset about something, but my perspective on life has changed so much, that it is changing how I react to circumstances. What a blessing. Raising support has been difficult considering our current economic climate, but even in that God continues to give me energy as I grow in my certainty that He is in control.
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Fighting Deamons Hand-2-Hand
I thought they would just put us up in a bunk house, but the acomadations were more like a hotel room with a kitenette. Everything was just great. Overnight, I don't think that I got one wink of sleap. I kept having dreams of spiritual warfare and battling deamons.
Each time I woke up I felt a little more edgy. It gets so dark out in the country and in an unfamiliar place, after waking up several times from these dreams I was a little creeped out.
One dream in particular stood out. In the dream a person told me don't go in that house. He pointed to a large building. The man in the dream said, if you go in there you will be deceived and will probably die. I looked and my family was walking in. I took off after them, but they had already entered the building.
When I walked in, it was set up for a weading reception. It was beautiful and it was also entirely engulfed in flaims. I ran up to my family and said, "We have to get out! You'll die in here!" They couldn't see the flames. They just wanted to stay to enjoy the beautiful event.
Finally, unable to convince them, I dragged them out forcibly.
That's when I woke up.
???
I've never had a dream like that. I'm not sure where it fits in. I understand the symbolism . . .but ... I've never been sure what to do with the whole dream thing. Is it just a dream or does go ever try and tell us something?
I honestly don't know.
Adam
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Endure and Enjoy
Last night one of the people at the missions conference asked me if I get tired of making the same presentation night after night. Does it get old presenting each night at a missions conference? I thought about it, and frankly I enjoy each night. I don't ever get tired of telling people about our burden for the Czech Republic, encouraging them with a Bible lesson, and singing or teaching. This missions conference is hosting three different mission families. Instead of feature a different family on each night, each family presents their missions in a small group called a "huddle". Each night I presented the same presentation, and the groups rotated each night. The first night (Saturday) was a potluck where we told our faith stories (testimonies) and tonight is a rap up night were we've been asked to discuss our financial needs and our next steps. One of the families is currently supported by the church and the other two (us and the Walkers) are seeking support.
It has been great to spend this much time with the people from a church. We begun to get a feel for the "personality" of Aetna Calvary and its people, and I hope they've gotten a sense for what the Parmenters are all about. This is really the best way, because we want to develop relationships with churches, especially if they decide to support us financially.
So, while we'll be happy to sleep in our own beds, we've enjoyed each day with the folks at Aetna Calvary in White Cloud, Michigan.
Adam
Saturday, February 7, 2009
Our Missions Journey Jan/Feb 2009
Meanwhile Back on Bank Street:
Recently unemployed, Adam is phoning churches to discover those interested in our mission while also studying Grasping God’s Word. With a background as a writer/presenter/trainer, Adam’s also looking for temporary work. On Wednesdays, Adam leads a Bethel community group called Zeteo.
Michael is learning about acid based reactions in chemistry, kinetic energy in physical science, reading Count of Monte Cristo in world lit, and has a new trumpet solo ready for churches. He is helping lead a Bible study with a friend his age.
Maryellen is busy practicing flute for two school band festivals and for a piano recital. At school she is learning about volcanoes and is meeting the challenge of advanced math. When she has free time she is knitting, sewing, beading, drawing or making a homemade rag doll.
PLEASE PRAY that we will be able to develop a full schedule of meetings. Fatigue is always an issue. Pray that we will stay healthy and well rested
WHERE WILL BE SERVING NEXT
Sunday 1-Mar-09
10 am Crossroads, Scottville, MI 231-757-2857
Wednesday 4-Mar-09
Aetna Calvary, White Cloud, MI 49349 Phone: 231-689-0611
Wednesday 18-Mar-09
8:35am Cornerstone Christian School, Bellevue, NE
7pm Cornerstone Bible, Crete, NE 402-826-2691
Friday 20-Mar-09
9am Omaha Christian Academy, Omaha, NE
Sunday 22-mar-09
9:30am Calvary Church, Wahoo, NE 402-443-4745
6pm Heartland Baptist, Bellevue, NE 402-291-4588
For the complete 2009/2010 calendar www.sharethecrown.com
Thanks for taking the time to read and pray for us.
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Parmenter Missions - Saying Goodbye to mom
I thank God that all three are Christians and even now are in the physical presence of our Lord Jesus Christ enjoying themselves. I have no clue what heaven will be like, but I am convinced that the same God who created the vast universe, kissing, and the ingredients that become chocolate bars has put just as much creative genius into our eternal home.
However, I am sitting in my parents earthly home in LaGrange, IN. It's almost like a shrine to their memory. I spent an hour wandering around by myself looking at pictures, trinkets, and the stuff that they left lying around as they went about the business of living. I kept hoping they might be around a corner sitting quietly or call out to me from another room, but I know they are not.
They can never come to me again. There will come a day when I will physically die and go into the eternal presence of Jesus Christ. On that day I will be reunited with my mother, father, and other believers who have proceeded me in death. In that day we will rejoice, and talk, and laugh....
It's the separation between us and the waiting that swells the aching in my heart.
So, everything in life comes to a halt. Time seems to stretch and slow and flow around me as so many others go about their daily lives, but for me and my family nothing else matters. Remembering, laughing, weeping, and honoring are our only purpose right now. I wish that I could visit each of you and tell you how my mother overcame adversity in childhood and spent her life raising a family of eight. How she helped others, and saved lives, as a nurse. I could spend more time telling you about her Christian faith, passionate disposition, and gentle spirit. For now it is enough to say that I owe her my Christian faith for it is she who led me to Christ. What can I say to honor her more.
Somehow next week we will get back into the business of educating our children, earning an income, raising support for the mission field, preaching the Word, and teaching others.
In all this, we continue to trust God's goodness and timing.
Thank you for your prayers and support.
Adam on behalf of Marge and the kids.